Yet again his priorities must shift & I am not so sure I can keep playing 2nd- would you?

My byf of 10 mo. divorced after 28 yrs. (her doing). We met, fell in love & his youngest son (21) got an apartment with him in order to save $ because he was going back to school. Soon after the son who is not at all $$ responsible needed to have a cosigner for $40K in student loans - ok - he did that. Then it became the loan for the 4whlr - whihc he had cosigned for & they were repo-ing it - so he paid it off. Then the son lost his job & says he's having trouble getting his UI. Now the sons GF is pregnant. I want to be supportive of the decisions my byf is making towards his son - after all it's his child. However, the X wife does nothing & left my byf in a position to have to file CH13 - so he doesn't have anything left to give. His dghtr (28) is not much better & always uses him. While I ask for NOTHING, they are always making him feel as though he's choosing between them & I. Now that another grandchild is on the way - OUR future together is under even more stressed.