Question for hypocrites and women pastors?

The bible clearly spells out plainly that a woman is not supposed to preach or teach in the church. It's right there not once but four or five times. The excuse or reason that one says the verse doesn't matter is because it's " a new time ". My question is, if you can take something from the New Testament which you claim we're in, and say it doesn't matter, then why can't a or a thief say, " he meant don't do those things back then, but it's a new time now? Therefore we are hypocrites if we criticize sinners for doing things that they don't feel is wrong, yet you at the same time are changing doctrine around to fit your own needs as well. So don't say to a ual, that is wrong, or to even a killer, that is wrong, but then deliberately go against doctrine and make the excuse, " things have changed now ". Didn't the Lord say in Malachi 3:6 that he never changes? So if he had the apostles of the New Testament write these commandments, what makes you think he changed his mind about it?